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Andrew David Naselli and Jennifer J. Naselli review Elyse Fitzpatrick and Jessica Thompson's book "Give Them Grace: Dazzling Your Kids with the Love of Jesus", which argues that Christian parents should focus on giving their children the gospel and grace rather than trying to raise "good kids" through obedience and rules. The authors contend that the goal of parenting should be to point children to Jesus and his perfect obedience, rather than trying to produce good behavior through human effort. The book emphasizes the importance of explaining the gospel to children, teaching them about sin and mercy, and training them in the context of the gospel. The reviewers commend the book but note two weaknesses: the authors' definition of "law" is unclear and assumes a Lutheran view, and their interpretation of the phrase "of the Lord" in Eph 6:4 is disputed. The book's radical emphasis on grace may lead some readers to conclude that it is dangerous, but the reviewers argue that this is a necessary correction to the common approach of using fear and guilt to motivate obedience.