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Afraid of never finding love, the solution is to be more loving, and the real fear may be not finding love with oneself. Changing perspective can change everything, and love is a miracle. A woman's story of finding love after her grandmother told her to look for a miracle instead of a man is shared. The news is not the love story, but the transformation of fear into love.

Many marriages end in divorce because people don't know what's good for them in a relationship. Physical attraction is not a perfect clue to finding love, and the unconscious mind is not helpful in finding long-lasting love. What turns us on could be what should turn us off, and respect and caring for oneself are more valuable.

The belief in the scarcity of love must be overcome, and there is abundance all around. To find love, one must learn to love oneself radically and be vulnerable. Knowing oneself is necessary to love oneself, and loving oneself is necessary to know and love someone else.

Following deeper yearnings and getting to know oneself can lead to change and stop the search for satisfaction outside. Fear is everywhere, but facing it and doing what one is afraid of can lead to growth. The more comfortable one becomes with spending time alone, the better they will feel in a relationship, and love means letting go, being vulnerable, and knowing who one is.